In the ever changing world, the only thing that people still can not accept openly is losing virginity before marriage. It is a sensitive issue, especially in regions where people are more connected to their culture and values. It is true for countries like India, where still love marriages or live in relationships are not easily accepted. Even teenagers, especially girls consider it great event and cathartic life. The issue becomes very serious and intense at times. Are you one of those people? You really losing virginity before marriage is a big deal?
YES Support
• In this world, all that what can not be recovered after it is lost is regarded as valuable and precious.
• Virginity is not about sharing a physical relationship with another, but is more about sharing trust and belonging with others.
• The first time early mistakes made in the adolescent can be costly for life. Sometimes the damage is irreversible.
• In country like India, where women are seen as God, virginity becomes a certification of features for them.
• When it comes to girls, do not exceed a short time, but then leads to deeper emotional consequences.
Do Not
• People have a habit of making haste of waste, and when something has to happen sometime, why make a fuss out of it.
• Get intimate with anyone is a matter of choice and not be confined to the limits.
• The character can not be judged on the basis of virginity. If that were the case, most of the guys should be tested without character.
• Whenever virginity was talk that is limited to women if men are not bounded to the terms, why should women be like?
• Virginity has nothing to do with relationships or long-term commitment. Had this been the case, most arranged marriages should have succeeded.
Conclusion
Since ages, people are following the concept of virginity is the gift of the two partners after their marriage. However, in today's world, the concept is changing. It's more of a personal preference and choice of what partners want. The only thing is that the decision should be taken with due consideration. In any case, should not hinder happiness and peace in your life.
S.Ganesh,MBA, Phd
HR , Group Discussion Team !
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